Deeper Connections

I think Yin and I have a deep connection rooted in the nature of who we are as human beings. I look around at others and by comparison see people who are mostly only superficially involved with each other. They may or may not agree if asked. From the sake of appearances theirs are relations built on the same foundation as most other fundamental parts of their lives: a thing done because it fits a norm. The person they are involved with could just as easily be replaced by another so long as that person, too, continued to fit within that comfortable norm. The relationship fulfills needs for companionship, comfort, security. I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with that. I point it out only to contrast and better reveal what I think of the relationship between Yin and myself. I need help in clarifying it, because to me it has a component that goes beyond words. She could not be replaced by another. She is a one of a kind for me. I think that is what goes on between us. I am unable to get enough of her.This, of course, drives our relationship in all ways. Being human beings, sex is an essential means of connecting. There are others. But, only sex provides the physical means of touching each other. This doesn’t mean sex is only intercourse. Sex can be many things. We are finding out more about that together.On the subject of Tantric sex, I need to continue to do more reading. I think I grasp a few of the common principles involved. To be oversimplistic, more is better, longer is better, a deeper connection is better. I think we’re on a good path.On the subject of Kama Sutra- only because I ran across the following while reading about Tantric thoughts -I am sharing the following visual aids.Lying Down:Sitting Down:Rear Entry Position:Standing Position:There. That should keep us busy for awhile. lol.