Archive for May 4, 2008

Shibari How To: Lesson 7/Schools of Bondage

Posted in Bondage, How-to, Shibari with tags , , on May 4, 2008 by advcpl

From http://www.bdsm-chicago.com/cram

Schools of bondage
by MorTis

Schools (or classifications) of Shibari
I have heard 100’s of different activities people do with bondage, and I want to more clearly categorize them. I came up with 5 major schools that I could classify into these major schools. Now, an activity could be in more than one school at the same time, and you can use more than one school in the same session. There may be more, but these are what I came up with.


1. Artistic (for art, photography, etc)
2. Torture/Interrogation (hojojustu)
3, Erotic Bondage (Kinbaku-bi, this would include sex)
4. Sexual humiliation (kinbaku-bi, seen most in Japanese photography)
5. Restraint (hojojustu, Most commonly seen in Western bondage photography)
6. Meditation

Levels of Bondage.
(borrowed from sscc)

1) implied bondage - immobilization by suggestion or command but no use of physical materials.

2) symbolic bondage - use of physical materials for appearance or symbolism, but with restraint or immobilization low or not intended.

3) structural bondage - the bondage is achieving some physical purpose but not necessarily restraint or immobilization.

4) effective bondage - escape resistant restraint or immobilization is the major factor, although appearance, symbolism and other physical purpose may also be intended.

5) applied bondage - including furniture, fixtures, equipment and fittings etc. anything not classed as ‘toys’ in the bondage.

6) absolute bondage - if you can’t escape it, it’s absolute enough for this term, that’s the main intent anything else is a bonus.

Black Rope

Khajuraho - Tantric Sex

Posted in Tantra with tags on May 4, 2008 by advcpl

Khajuraho - Tantric Sex

More interesting temple sculptures…

Missing him is more than I can handle sometimes…

Posted in Love, Relationship on May 4, 2008 by advcpl

Separation from Yang is a pretty regular thing. Not by choice, but nevertheless like clockwork. I’m used to spending up to a week at a time away from him. In the beginning, it was really difficult. I would go through the same cycle of emotions each time. Pouting first…then mad (not at him)…then just numb. After a while though, I got used to it. Don’t get me wrong. He spends every available minute with me. I am completely spoiled. He is always so good to me. It’s just that this weekend is really hard for some reason; I’m not sure why. (I warned you that my posts were going to be whiny).

I just really miss him right now. I want to touch his face, hear his voice, hold his hand, feel his arms around me holding me tightly. I want to fall asleep with our legs intertwined and his breath on my neck. I need to kiss him.

It’s after midnight; I’m going to bed now. I love you…so much.