So…missing Yin. Most things I do make me think of her. I miss talking to her and being with her. She’s in tune with me to a degree that I’m not used to. For example, we were talking one night and I mentioned to her about a standout guy in a sport that I used to participate in. His work ethic and competitive drive continues to inspire me even now. For my birthday, she got me a framed poster sized photograph of him. He had even signed it. She’s something else.
Recently we were discussing our experiences with life and our encounters with the pervasive materialism and shallowness that permeates so many aspects of our social structure. That led, logically it seems to me, into a discussion about sex and the need to draw a line concerning what we would allow society to dictate to us. We’re rebels after all. From there, we vowed, or at least I did (I think Yin did too….the Blue Moons get in the way of accurate recall on this point) to have sex with each other in any way (all ways) that we could think of. Thus, our venture into the adventure of farout sex.
We agreed to start with Tantric sex. I know nothing of this except that Sting of the Police seems to be the Western World’s ambassador to the Tantric sex Yogi’s in India. Yin had the foresight to purchase a Tantric Sex for Idiots book to get us started. It looks promising.
Hours, if not days long, sessions of sexual activities. Multiple O’s for women and men (I did look a little ahead…I think only women get multiple full on O’s. Men get something far less and have to bide their time until the big finish at the end. This is ok as long as there IS a big finish at the end.) We also discussed Kama Sutra, Geisha sex, and other stuff. Mainly, it’s about having fun our way without the inhibitions of youth/society/etc. We did agree that there will be no donkeys, goats, chickens, arrests, mugshots, permanent tattoos or any other markings involved. A few bruises and sore muscles are ok as long as it feels good: it looks like Tantric practices may require good balance and a sense of coordination.
I’ve done a little research of my own into the culture of India. Our typical suburbia landscaping is pretty staid compared to what some quick Googling brings up about the decor of the temples over there. I like it quite a lot. I think I’ll inquire about similar outdoor ornamentals on my next visit to the garden sections at Lowe’s and Home Depot to see what we can come up with for a project this Spring. I’ll let you know how it comes out. In the meantime, have a look at what I found:
